This community exists so we can relax, explore, and connect with each other on our own terms — without having to dodge ads, mods-for-profit, or surveillance capitalism. That means we keep this space safe, weird, and respectful. Not because we’re enforcing vibes, but because we want to protect what we’ve built together.
Here’s what that looks like:
Assume good intentions, but be accountable for your impact.
No bigotry, no hate, no punching down — ever.
Don’t gatekeep or flex. Share what you know without ego.
Don’t harass or mess with anyone’s boundaries, in public or DMs.
No spam, scams, or self-promotion unless explicitly invited.
NSFW is okay — in the right place, with the right tags.
If a thread has a topic, don’t derail it into something completely off-track.
Flag harmful content when you see it. Let mods know, don’t escalate it yourself.
Don’t share other people’s posts outside the commune without permission.
Respect anonymity. Don’t dig, dox, or speculate about identities.
No tracking links, engagement bait, or outside platform drama.
Encourage weirdness, curiosity, and honesty.
Welcome newbies and lurkers just as much as loud regulars.
Accept that moderation is sometimes messy — and done in good faith.
Remember that this is an opt-in, volunteer-run space. Be chill.
This isn’t a public utility or a corporate platform. It’s a cooperative project. If you consistently make this space worse, you will be warned, muted, or removed. If you consistently make it better — thank you. That’s the whole point.
Questions? Concerns? Message a moderator or post in the #meta category.
Be kind, don’t be creepy, and don’t turn this place into the thing we’re trying to get away from.